Troy

Welcome to these boards.

You will meet some great people here.

The advice you get here is long term in nature and focuses mainly on you and your healing.

No tactics.

Real changes.

One thing you must answer for yourself pretty quick.

What are you willing to do to save your M if you are not assured it can be saved?

When you took you vows did you say:

"I will love and honor you, for better or worse

BUT

If you get scared and lose your way

Then

I won't"

?

Ask yourself what better or worse means. This is certainly the worse part right?

What will you do?

Will you let someone else choose for you?

Will you give your W the power over your honor, beliefs and convictions?

Will you let her choices define YOU?

these are big questions Troy.

I can tell they were the most important ones I ever had to answer in my life.

EVER

It has made all the difference.

What are your answers?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am