Coach was giving you some awesome advice, and he is one of the guys you come here originally looking for...still married.
Eric hit on a very key point, and we know that you are hurting right now, and want to make her hurt as much as you believe she is hurting you hence the money part.
But it is glaring.
$800 in support and or nothing... Since she is so tied to financial security from your first posts, you are wanting to hurt the hell out of her if this goes to court.
You know what? It might go to court. You might get the best advice in the world, do everything perfectly, and still end up going to court.
There are no guarentees here, there is no secret way to fix your marriage. 5 weeks? 6 weeks? Getting advice from a couple of guys who got divorced? What do you think they are going to say? They are going to give you advice that supports their choices.
You want to be married?
Absorb knowledge from the Divorce Busting books, and the people around this board who have a genuine desire to help you better yourself.
You want to figure out how you don't have to give her any money after the divorce, hurt her? Talk to some guys that gave up.
Your a football coach, you know what it takes to come from behind. Practice what you preach dig deep and this ain't going to be easy.
Use you anger as a shield not a sword.
Hopefully others will also come along.
I will HIGHLY recommend either posting here in MLC or in Newcomers.
The advice is different and will be conflicting, pick one place.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
