Her reply: whatever you are going thru...insecurity
Thinking about replying with "not going through anything...I'm just going out with people who want to be around me"
I would respond with what Rob said here:
Originally Posted By: robx
"I don't know what I was thinking taking you back after you cheated on me. This isn't what I want. You are not the one taking me back, let's be clear about this, it was me considering taking you back and I can see now that I made the wrong decision to let you back in my life. I've been thinking about this for quite some time already, I can't have someone who acts the way you do back in my life. I'm not attracted to you or any woman who would do this to me, I don't want this and I can't just stay with you because of the kids. This is the wrong thing to do. You don't have the right feelings when it comes to us and I'm starting to see that I don't have the right feelings when it comes to you. This idea & attitude you have about "taking me back" doesn't work for me. I think we should separate again, tell the kids things aren't working out."
It's an excellent post and I will buy you a beer if you actually do it and stick to it.
