Here is my original post from the newcomers board.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2076657&page=1

Over the past month or so I have avoided any relationship talk. We have both been individually to see a MC. My appointment was 2 weeks ago and my wife's was Tuesday. She has not talked to me about how her appointment went. I was out of town Tuesday night and got back in time to coach my son's football game last night. We did not speak this morning I walked out to go to work and did not say goodbye which is her usual tactic to hurt me. Then at work this morning I get this email from her:
What do you want to do? I cannot live like I am anymore. I am ready to get on with my life.

What should I do? I have consulted an attorney and with her getting custody I am looking at paying her $800 a month in child support. She thinks she will get much more. Her getting custody is my worst case scenario. I will fight for joint physical in which case she will get nothing. I do not want to push her to an attorney because I think that will be the end of it. Thanks I am hurting big time.

Last edited by Troy999; 10/14/10 04:17 PM.

Me:44
Wife:41
S11: D14
married 20 years
bomb 7/25/2010
she filed 7/15/2011
headed for trial in early 2012