Originally Posted By: robx
Did she have an affair previous to all of this?
If so what are the details of this affair?
What happened, how long ago did it happen, how long did it go on for, etc.

If she really has the idea that she is taking you back,
it's the wrong idea for her to have if she is the one who originally had an affair and this is something you will need to correct before anything you get any positive momentum in any direction other than this one you're currently on.


Yes...she had an EA from Dec - Sep...she slept with OM while we were separated. She is in NC with OM...that I can verify.


M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10