Counselor thinks NOT moving away is a bad idea. I told her last week I'm moving out of the house, but staying in town. She told me I was in denial and grasping at straws hoping he'll change his mind. We'll I'm sure that's true, but this is my decision the time being.
Um, I'm with you here. Your counselor is loco. Why should you have to move??? That's ridiculous. And you are right, it's totally your choice. A new counselor may not be a bad idea.
Originally Posted By: So Ashamed
I can't contest the divorce. We're in a no-fault state, so I can only negotiate on the terms of the divorce, but I can't contest it.
Wait a minute here. No-fault just means there doesn't have to be "fault" stated in order to divorce. That has no bearing on whether you agree or not to what he's set fort his petition for divorce. I also live in a "no fault" state but I sure as hell didn't sign over wht stbx wanted just to appease him and make it go away... You need to talk to your L about this. Now if you are in total agreement with him, then that's another story.
