Thanks gr8 day. I know you are right. My whole life revolves around the stupid university where everyone knows us both. I had been doing a good job of just hanging out with people I felt 'safe' with regarding having a good attitude and not giving me their opinion unless asked... last night was a setback and I have learned. I have many things in my life of which to be grateful. Besides this situation, I have a very good life that will get even better in less than a year. I'm not going to wait for that year though, I will start shedding my skin now...
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."