My nwe thought of the day.. My D sitch is that he wants me to sign the house over to him and for me to keep some furniture (which is already in my possession). I told him I would sign the house if we could agree to a settlement. Well, he balked at this. He says it's ridiculous for me to want $ from him (though he makes substantially more). We went to court in Sept. - he filed a motion to try to get me to pay half the mortgage and if not, I could sign the house over to him and I showed up with my L and he postponed the hearing until next month.
I am thinking a new strategy for me could be to tell him either we settle of we can sell the house. What do you guys think?
I found that house. He knew nothing of it. I helped fix it up, make it ours and he moved his family in w/o telling me, charged them rent & never gave me a dime for the extra expenses of his fam. living there. It really dings me thinking he could be doing all this to move some new chick in to benefit from everything we worked so harhd for together.
So what do you guys think of my new idea of asking him to either settle with me or sell the house when we go to court in NOv?
Citygirl, if you are out there, I'd love to hear from you!
