I'm a sentimental person - very open and emotional
is a attraction killer and won't get you this
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how many times in the past year had I been pursued and felt physically and emotionally intimate with my W. I said maybe twice. That really got me upset because I realize that I want more.
Nothing wrong with your feelings, it's when you let your feelings lead you that it is a problem. Women know feelings aren't how to make decisions, feelings change, women talk about their feelings and they act on what they think. That's why it confuses men to hear women say one thing and do another. Women lead with their feelings in a conversation they don't want their man to lead with his feelings - attraction killer. Why - feelings aren't decisive, don't instill confidence, they don't come from strength and they aren't calm.
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I think I'm going to be just fine if she comes back, or not.
See the difference it made to yourself. Lead with what you think. Don't forget it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
