After dinner, wife fell asleep on the sofa while watching yet another TV show.
She's bored.
Quote:
She's not motivated to do much this week
What motivated you to engage in your marriage? Remember what works, do more of it.
Her saying she wanted out...
I'm not sure tonight was a case of boredom for her (though it is for me) so much as being burned out/stressed out. She was watching one of her favorite shows, and couldn't even stay awake for it. She normally wakes up at 5am, so watching any show past 10pm is tough for her.
But she has a hard time being spontaneous, a that's a mismatch between us. If I try and plan something, she finds financial objections, or time constraints.
I need to lead on this. But I also want to accept her as she is too. That was one of the things she said was important in MC. Her way of recharging her batteries is zoning out in front of a TV.
