Trying to care

[cat04]

Hi Cat, I love my support group. I couldn't do this without em.

Yes you could, it would just be harder.

I LOVE BEER!

This I understand.

You love it probably as much as I hate it.

You are a guy though so...

Getting a handle on this, could be very difficult. It is possible though. Especially if it isn't a HUGE problem.

I'm changing this up too...it's enabling my procrastination.

I am glad that you recognize this.

Don't let it rule you. That is something you can control.

You know Faith, we all have our "things". For some of us it is video games, sewing, animals, computers...

Something that occupies our time and takes over if we don't monitor ourselves.

These things, get in the way of our interpersonal relationships.

I am not a very "personable" person. Yea, yea, some of the people here are gonna not believe that...

I spend a lot of time giving to people. With my job, my son and his activities, my close friendships. Sometimes, I need down time to do one of my "veg out" sort of things. It was, to a degree, an excuse to not have to talk to people when I didn't have to or want to.

So now, I still make that time for me, I just do my best to not let it take over all of my free time.

You can do this, find a balance, monitor yourself.