May go from Piecing to The Big D

[loweinsd51]

IC went well yesterday. Co told me that I was warranted to tell my wife that I was uncomfortable with the jacuzzi situation. Also told me that it seems my wife has a problem with boundaries.

A mutual friend was over last night so I thought that I would sit at the table and join in the conversation. They left and we all went to another friends house in the apt complex and I helped hang some fall decorations. She offered my wife and I some wine so we talked and had a glass of wine until it was time to take the kids home. I took my DD's home and got them into bed asleep. Wife stayed at her friends house for another 1 1/2 hours.

Wife got ready for bed climbed in bed and started pushing my legs away from her. I naturally asked her if something is wrong and she said that she needed some space and I'm not giving it to her. Said that she wanted to talk to her friend alone and that I was being clingy. I told her I was offered a glass of wine and I wanted to drink it so I did and it's irrelevant to me that you wanted some alone time. Keep in mind that my wife stayed another 1 1/2 hours after I left.

I then told my wife "you know what your right I think we both need some space because I have a lot to think about as well and I need to decide if my needs are being met" She responded something to the affect of good luck trying to find someone as good as her. I replied "I could say the same to you" then I rolled over and went to sleep.

Got ready this morning gave my wife a kiss on the cheek and said bye and she responded with bye.