Just remember that the office gossip is going to be worse for your H. I bet most people will be disgusted with what he has done once the A becomes public knowledge.

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Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength