Ok, another thank you to everyone!

The tapes - I'm not going to play them for anyone else. Just my parents who helped me (stepmom is a lawyer - she's good at listening to things like that and getting to the important stuff) otherwise I discuss them with my counselor and friends, but that's it.

I should check out MarrigeAdvocats, too.

I understand that this is the anti-DB way, but I am going to speak with a lawyer and file for D. H4L - I think this is the only way to break the fantasy. I think that it's like as long as I'm still in the picture he doesn't have to commit to her fully. Me pulling out of MC so quickly screwed up his plans.


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