Facing the music

[NotFromThesePart]

NotFromThesePart,

First off, cool name – what part are from?

I am responding to your comment on another thread….

Eric, this is wise. I feel increadibly guilty for my role in the breakup of my M but my GUILT isn't the thing making me work. I want to be a better person, I want both of us to be happy, and yes I want my M back. Love is making me do this not guilt.

I feel increadibly guilty for my role in the breakup of my M

Me too except YOU do not have to live YOUR life with this guilt. Acknowledge your role in the failure, figure out what things/actions you did that ideally you would like to change and them simply change them. I’m sure you have heard this before BUT I will say it again. Make the change for YOU – not to get YOUR W back. So dude, let go of the guilt - all it’s gonna do is beat YOU down.

I want to be a better person

I do too – so don’t talk about it – do it. What do you want to change about yourself….psstt….I bet ya gonna say controlling – that fine. IF you were controlling then change it. The bigger question YOU should be asking and if you look inside yourself you will see that I am right….the bigger question is WHY were you controlling.

I want both of us to be happy

I want the world to be happy dude. Which do I control (hint….there is only ONE correct answer)?

yes I want my M back

Become a better person a better man and maybe just maybe you will get your M back.

Love is making me do this not guilt

A dude that is in touch with his sensitive side….I like that.

Love you say….

Can you let her go….in the name of LOVE?

Can you stop chasing her as* and become the man that you want to be….in the name of LOVE?

Can you stand by YOUR vows when some hot chick starts hitting on YOU and you think your W is with other man…..In the name of LOVE?

AND

Can you learn to LOVE YOURSELF first so that you can go and get your W back….In the name of LOVE?


God Bless,
Eric