In the process

[newmama]

Hi all,thanks for some really good points for me to consider.

lol, fb2! I am sure there are some decent men who don't wear socks! I was just disappointed to learn all that about Einstein when I went the museum exhibit so I had to share. As for the pot bellied men with slim beauties, guess the slim beauties were comfortable with that! I am not a slim beauty but I am honestly not attracted to men who are hefty. A little beer gut or love handles is not a big deal. LYING with your photos is deceptive and not cool! He was using pics from a year old. He had gained 50 pounds since those pics.

I don't want to lead him on because that sucks! We all want someone to be just as interested in us as we are in them.

kerry- you are so right about rehashing things in a couple of days. Friends is better before intimacy when pursuing something more serious IMO. (i don't regret my fling!) The past relationship came up...when he asked "what happened? were you separated? how long since you have been together? When did he leave?" i.e. 20 questions. I didn't go into great detail.

Mystik and Violin-- yep. Nipping it in the bud. Tomorrow.

But I am thinking of sending him a message saying that I went out with someone else that I feel more of a connection with and want to pursue that at this time. Sounds ok, right?

How do I answer the question, in the middle of dinner, if a guy asks me "how do you feel the date is going so far? So do you like me?" and those kinds of questions? Sheesh...

Now This is actually Orenco, not City Guy. City guy has been emailing me. He is a few extra pounds and admits it up front. I have seen a photo and he still looks attractive to me..he is big on authenticity so maybe his photo is current? OUr email correspondence is interesting so far...meaning I feel comfortable talking to him and motivated to come up with something clever--mentally stimulated!


who knows when/if I will meet him though. At least he emailed me back again today!