Everyone is different. STBXW and I split up in May 2009 and I spent most of the rest of the year convinced it was just a matter of time before it all worked out.
I miss STBXW physically more than I do emotionally. If she all of a sudden showed up and wanted to rekindle things in the bedroom I don't think I could say no.
But if I was competing with others I would. I don't want to share her with anyone.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6