H pushing Divorce

[beastiemanager]

Thank you trapt, and Eric

This sounds more to me like him wishing her a happy birthday with all he can offer up right now. You can bet he feels guilt like no other among many other things.

Okay, I can see how this could be. He must be feeling tremendous guilt.

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I am in a down mood. OW is likely living with H. Trying to shake this dang feeling like I have to compete with that "Ya-bo." I feel like H is hooked into her for good as she keeps feeding his ego. She does this well. I am trying hard to detach and not react to this.

I can see why.

For good? Are you sure?

See this for what it is, and it's definitely not a real relationship.

Lol, I am not sure of anything! Ya know, I seriously think I have menopause issues happening with my emotions. They get all out of whack often! I take things so ...to a bad place. And I get so down from really, "little things."

Choose to see the good

I am trying to do just that. I have begun with a positive list everynight. I write down all negatives, then I change them to positives. And my positives list is much more than the negative!

BM,


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I am in a down mood.
I am sorry that YOU feel this way. What things do you like to do? Maybe try doing something to take your mind off of all of this chit.

Thanks Eric.
Yeah I have to shake my head, literally, sometimes to stop the obsessive thought.

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OW is likely living with H.
Are you sure?

If not, then try not to let your mind wander.

Well, unfortunately, I am pretty sure this is so. She blabs all over cyber space about everything they do. But I am trying not to react or think about it.

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I feel like H is hooked into her for good as she keeps feeding his ego.
Once again you do not know this for sure. Stop trying to figure out what he is thinking, what is going on. Focus on you right now.

Did I tell you I could win an OScar for best director in "SCARY SCENARIOS?" I am my own worst enemy with those. Lol!
I hear what you are saying. Stop being in his head. Be in my own.

God, I know how hard it is. The only thing that worked for me was trying to get out of the house and do something.

You can do this!

thanks for sharing this. I have a hard time with happy I think. I see that now.

I can do this, I can hang in.