For some reason my posts seem to be taking a long to appear and I was unsure whether I was doing something wrong or not. Since the focus of the forum is so sensitive and there is so much pain, it is completely understandable to have more controls in place to ensure a safe environment for all.
There are a lot of amazing people here and I am so impressed with both the willingness to share as well as the wisdom expressed. It is such a blessing to have such a marriage-friendly site such as this for dealing with the difficulties that seem to come with the territory of a long-term committed relationship.
