After alot of thought I made a move. I called her. The Co had asked me to ask her about OG? That the Co we are doing will not mean anything with a third party involeved and I told her that. That he is going to ask her about it on tues.

so I asked her what was going on. If she had dumped him? She said its complicated. So I asked how? Seems her Son has asked her not to end it yet because the clown is going to throw him a bachloer party. I said thats it? Says she see's him sometimes and is not sleeping with him.

I told her to straighten it out. Tell her 20yo son to get over it! and if she was serious about fixing us she had to end it. That when she deletes his number to call me. I was not angry. Just matter of fact. Told her there is no way we can work on this, befriends, talk, while this is going on. Asked her to picture this the other way around and she said she would not tolerate it.

I wished her a happy b-day and and to have a nice visit with her friends. Made it clear that we should not talk other than about the house.

Man that was hard. She sounded surprised and was very reserved.
I told her I was better than that clown and deserved to be treated better, She said she knew.

Wow this sucks!!