He always says "I'm just being honest, would you rather me lie to your face?" Its like he hates me being jealous but enjoys fueling the fire.

On a brighter note I'm super proud of myself today. I have not contacted him at all!! Normally I would make up a reason to text him, like something funny one of the girls did. When I had that feeling today I picked up my cell phone and sent a text to a friend instead smile

When I checked my facebook tonight I had a msg from him saying he was out of time on his cell and he wanted to call to say goodnight to the kids. Then had the nerve to say "unless you want to put $29 in our joint account so I can get a phone card" WHAT?!?? Personally I've never heard of a $29 phone card.

I responded with "I'm sure someone would have been willing to allow you to use their phone to say good night to your children." He just responded with "Nevermind". I'm sure he's pissed but hey C'est La Vie. He made his bed.

Was I right to respond or should I just leave it with no response when hes making requests like that?


Me: 30/ H: 34
DD: 7 / DD: 4
Together 16 years, Married 10
He Moved Out: July 2009 / Came Home: January 2010
Left Again: October 2010