Thanks for the welcome kissak I will be reading your story a little more as well. But did you keep ML with your H or did you stop after a while? I have tried to stop once but we just seem to both fall on each other if we go for more than 4 weeks.
And TAMF the longest we have gone without ML (aside from the year I walked out) is 4 weeks and that was AFTER having my babies.
Normally we ML every other day at LEAST.
When he is not here I have no libido bring him round well...
He is here today. Pottering round the shed and things. When I arrived home from shopping he was here, I knew he was coming. I gave him a kiss hello and then left him be. If he asks i assist him.
When he is around I don't go on the computer. I used to but found out after he had left that he felt I was pushing him away and having an affair online. I wasn't, never occured to me, ironically I was trying to find ways of saving money as we had financial problems so that he wasn't under pressure.
And so I watch and love him and be here for him as no other can be. and while doing so look after my own self and those of our girls.
