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And STBXW tells her I'm doing great getting over her.

Why does this bother me?

Because you are not detached, even yet.

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I told her, "No. To me, that's mommy and daddy's house and I don't want her to live there with another man. It would hurt."

Please tell me you didn't say that to an 8 year old.

See above. Detach.