IB,

I felt just as you are in that it was like H left me holding the bag. I live in a huge old house built in about 1850. Saying my house is in disrepair is an understatement.

I'm here to tell you that once you start to get past the hurt and the anger and start getting things done yourself it is such a confidence builder. You'll take pride in your accomplishments and those feelings start to fade.

You'll learn to rely on yourself. In the end you're the only one you can rely on.

Enjoy your weekend!