I am just ready to get this over with, if my wife gets custody I will not have a good relationship with my kids, if I get custody I will do everything I can to help my kids stay attached to her..
So fight with everything you have. You can fight for your kids and still take the high road. You'll never go wrong doing what's right.
IMO, she does not deserve the kid glove treatment from you. This is her choice and, in the end, all you are doing is giving her what she wants; freedom.
