Just remember that may only be true if the woman left. Ex seemed to think he was over me in no time because he was infatuated with his affair partner.
It took me at least a good two years and then I still cried sometimes when I came across photos.
Your STBX wants to feel less guilt for what she has done, thus the comment to your daughter. If she was in her right mind, just that thought would probably devistate her.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory