Re-Connecting

[Ready2Change]

I have read many books and many threads here. I think you need wise counsel.

I feel that projecting all the things that make a man attractive is important. The art of seduction is counter intuitive and may be in your marriages best interest.

The best advise I have seen here that works is to not take the WAS back, let them feel the lose, and beg you to take them back with lots of promises on new changes....

Here is a good phrase to use often:
"I am not sure anymore. I will need time to think about ...."

"What you just said"
"Everything that has happened"
"What I want"

And then get guidance from the people here.....

I wish you well.