It breaks my heart that we have another friend amongst us, but I will tell you that you will find strength here, you will find guidance and you will find friendship.

I am still fairly new on these boards, since July, but I am also having the sex issue. A lot of the people on these boards have at one time or another had the sex issue too and they have given me great advice. Just be really careful that you don't get hurt MORE than you already have been. Sex usually doesn't come without emotion when you love someone (and since you are my age and have 5 kids...I would say that the two of you LOVED A LOT and frequently!LOL!)

keep posting - use this board to vent and find yourself. We are here for you.

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12