That's a good question and one I've thought about. The fact that she's in a completely different time zone helps. I know its been recommended to have access to his emails, phone, texts etc. I think that's bogus. It's easy to make new email accounts, new phones, new skype accounts etc. If they want to contact OW they will find a way. Especially since I'm dealing with a computer savvy guy. There has to come a point where you just have to trust your instincts I guess. Sometimes you just have to work without a net but be prepared for a hard fall.


"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"

M18
Me39,H42
D16
Bomb 1/10
Moved out 3/10
OW 6/10
H wants to R,OW gone 11/10
H moves back 5/11
H wants to wear rings again 9/11