How will you know if he is done with the OW? I have asked myself this question many times. Take his word for it? Even though I would want to, I think that would be really naive.

I read a book about surviving an affair and it had a list of things that the LBS should ask for to prove they are not having contact - but I don't know. what do you and others think?

I hope that you get to that point AL, I really do.

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12