By the way, I'm reading all of the advice, trying to absorb it, re-reading it. Please keep it coming, don't think I'm not listening. Just completely overwhelmed. You guys are the best. Thanks so much for your patience with me.
Not a problem, SoA.
It is overwhelming and it's good to be able to talk with others who have been in the exact same place .
Come back as often as you can and read, read, read! So many common themes. You can always learn from other threads.