This is the best place you can be. Learn from others and improve yourself. Patience is the key. You will need a lot of it. Every situation is different. Some MLCers run far away, others seem to need to have their LBS nearby. Detachment is easier with no contact but if he seems to need contact, it's not wrong to continue provided that you can handle it mentally. It just can make detachment more difficult. Read as much as you can and get to work on yourself. Sounds like you're on the right track!
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11
