That is crazy mind reading and fortune telling from your IC.

He may or may not open the door. If you live the sitch acting "as if" the door is forever shut, a set of bad outcomes is more likely. If you ACCEPT that it may be shut forever, but WORK towards the possibility that it might be opened (Stockdale paradox), then a different set of interactions may follow.

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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