Should she write the letter ot not? I think if it makes you feel better, then do it. What have you got to lose.
I have read on here, over and over, now is not the time to send a letter like that. OTOH, it can be therapeutic for YOU to write it and pour your heart out, get it ALL out and down on paper. BUT DON'T SEND IT! I believe it will, indeed, fall on deaf ears.
It can help you find out where you are at this point in time, things you need to work on yourself and where you want to be in the future.
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