Well SOA, the ball is in your court on how to approach your H. If you want to write the letter, do it. If not, don't. And IDU is right.. we have all had that panicky feeling--it SUCKS but is very normal to happen when your M seems like it's on its last leg.
I thought according to the rules of DB, the ball is in HIS court? I'm afraid of what PMA_Baby said. If he's not ready, it falls on deaf ears. I don't know what the right thing to do is.
