<<We shall see what my IC thinks about this. She already suggested I not contact him unless it is serious/urgent or kid related. Which is fine. However that does not address what to do if HE is the one contacting ME...>>
BBJ, I don't think you need an IC to tell you what to do....I agree with the folks above. But it does not really matter if YOU do not think that turning your phone off is the right thing to do. Come on, 11 texts in one day????? I wonder if any of those were urgent and I wonder how many of those 11 you actually answered. You can't continue to complain about his actions if you continue to (inadvertantly) fuel them. Actually you can continue to complain...I / we get a laugh out of some of his antics, however, how does all this stuff affect YOU BBJ? You should be able to answer thsoe questions all by yourself without an IC. If the answer is I "enjoy" the contact, than keep doing it. If it bothers you, put an end to it. NGF did say I was black or white nothing in between...LOL...she may be right.
