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We've been there, SoA, and understand. =)

What's on the life menu for SoA, today?

I'm watching these miners being pulled out of the ground and working on a grant at the moment. Looking forward to run with friends and some house projects tonight (cleaning up and decorating for Halloween!).


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Can you guys and gals tell that I'm panicking?


Like PMA said; We've all been there.

I don't have anything else to offer but my support.

Listen to the wise people on here and become the best person you can be. You WILL make it through this.


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Originally Posted By: bustorama
We've been there, SoA, and understand. =)

What's on the life menu for SoA, today?

I'm watching these miners being pulled out of the ground and working on a grant at the moment. Looking forward to run with friends and some house projects tonight (cleaning up and decorating for Halloween!).


I'm at work for another 2 hours. I have to go back to my soon to be former home to get some more clothes to move over to my new room. Yes, I'm staying in a room at my friends house. I can't afford a studio apartment. After that I should try to check out the fitness center in the community where I'm staying. I have a gym membership but I've only gone once since my husband left. That's all I've got.

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What if you mailed him a letter apologizing and asking for forgiveness?

How long were you guys married/together SOA?

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What if you mailed him a letter apologizing and asking for forgiveness?

How long were you guys married/together SOA?


Married 7 and a half years, I know halfs don't count. Together 8 and a half.

I'm afraid of writing a letter and pouring my heart out and him not reading it or reading it and not "getting" that I'm sincere because he's not ready to deal with me.

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Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
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Can you guys and gals tell that I'm panicking?


Like PMA said; We've all been there.

I don't have anything else to offer but my support.

Listen to the wise people on here and become the best person you can be. You WILL make it through this.


Thanks idontunderstand.

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Halfs do count. Everything counts!

Well SOA, the ball is in your court on how to approach your H. If you want to write the letter, do it. If not, don't. And IDU is right.. we have all had that panicky feeling--it SUCKS but is very normal to happen when your M seems like it's on its last leg.

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Originally Posted By: soleil
Halfs do count. Everything counts!

Well SOA, the ball is in your court on how to approach your H. If you want to write the letter, do it. If not, don't. And IDU is right.. we have all had that panicky feeling--it SUCKS but is very normal to happen when your M seems like it's on its last leg.


I thought according to the rules of DB, the ball is in HIS court? I'm afraid of what PMA_Baby said. If he's not ready, it falls on deaf ears. I don't know what the right thing to do is.

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Originally Posted By: soleil
Halfs do count. Everything counts!

Well SOA, the ball is in your court on how to approach your H. If you want to write the letter, do it. If not, don't. And IDU is right.. we have all had that panicky feeling--it SUCKS but is very normal to happen when your M seems like it's on its last leg.


I thought according to the rules of DB, the ball is in HIS court? I'm afraid of what PMA_Baby said. If he's not ready, it falls on deaf ears. I don't know what the right thing to do is.


Do you guys see why I'm so confused? smirk

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I meant, regarding on whether you write the letter or not... (that would be your choice).

As for wanting to reconcile...it's clear you want that and he doesn't so yes, the ball is in his court as far as R'ing.

Idk... what do you guys suggest? Should she write the letter ot not? I think if it makes you feel better, then do it. What have you got to lose.

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