gucci, you didn;t answer my question. Who would I know you as?
As for Rondo, he isn't going to change anything today. Hence I told him to take care of his business and not think too much. As you said he's a big boy. I have confidence that he will choose the right way to go. It may be the screw you approach you suggest, it may not be. But it is way too early for Rondo to be issuing ultimatums. The wound is fresh. He needs to get his own emotions under control. That will enable him to really decide the way he wants to go.
As form his marriage, we'll see how that goes.
Finally, to point out what is acceptable and what is not would really just be a statement of the obvious.