The most important thing right now if for YOU to take it slow. For YOU to figure out your boundaries and find a way to clearly communicate those boundaries without being controlling. Also take time to think through if this is what YOU want. Gaining trust will not be easy. Forgiveness will not be easy. Rebuilding will not be easy. You BOTH have to be fully committed and YOU are in control right now.

Don't react on emotions. Take you time, think it through. As you do this for yourself, see if she will continue to chase you. She has to want this too...and from what you've posted...I'm not 100% convinced she does

M39 W41
Two children
WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09
Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10
No longer piecing...Nov 10
Separation Jan 11
EA ends again Feb 11
Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11