Originally Posted By: gutwrenching
You need to make it clear you will not be a second choice, you need transparency, you need actions from her, committment, etc.


Right. I forgot this too. Where the hell is Puppy when you need him????? Oh, that's right, he got BANNED!

Anyway, you need a transparency plan. Email addresses, passwords, phone records, open access to texts, all of that stuff.

You also need to set firm boundaries and consequences for breaking those boundaries.

Damn, I wish I could remember more of this. Read the DR book again!