Don't try to figure him out. He can't figure himself out right now. He sounds deep in the fog, he probably isn't acting rationally. So ignore it. Work on detaching and stay strong.
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11
