I don't know how you can listen to that. I can't even listen to my H's OW's name!
Remember affairs ARE BUILT ON LIES. OF COURSE THEY WILL TALK ABOUT IT. IT FEEDS THE ADDICTION. Once he sees you are out of his life, not a competition for her, are freeing him to actually make the choice and take the steps we'll see what he does. And you have no control over that. If he is the kind of man to ditch his marriage commitment for a fantasy, that's his immaturity and not your fault.
But he may not, people often dont. Let them see if they can make fantasy a reality and watch it most likely fall to pieces.
Also it's not until you are gone a while and he really feels it that he might face reality and see what he's missing.
