This is certainly time to take it slow. I would be suspicious of her motives. OM broke it off...does she just not want to be alone.
You need to make it clear you will not be a second choice, you need transparency, you need actions from her, committment, etc.
Trust is a tough one...they say it can come back over time...personally, I decided to see if it would
But do not jump back in. Do not go melty man
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11