Geez she just called me again and told me she passed tha tatoo parlor we got inked at. She is traveling the next days on buisness and will be at a girls weekend till sundat that she had planned. Will she call me the whole time? Says she wants to talk to me.

Spinfree,
I try to look at her this way. She had a kid at 17, he is 20 and has a kid and lives with his GF. She has never had any freedom because she moved right in with my 2 sons 15 and 13. I can't really blame her for wanting to spread her wings. She is out for a year for sure. It will take me that long to detach from her I'm sure. But before we moved in together we did live seperate and saw each other on weekends and some nights. It was exciting to see each other. Sex was great.
After 3 years here we got into a rut. Took each other for granted and she disconnected. All culminated labor day weekend when she got drunk, hooked up, made a drunk decision to move out. a month later she says it was stupid and crazy and has cried to me on several occasions about the pain she has from hurting me. Does not want to hurt me again so she is seeing Co.

detach deatch!!