Thanks guys. I need to stew on this for a while, but . . .

Originally Posted By: Forrest Gump

"Two things. One, be more respectful of her and others (golden rule). Two, pursue more, be less passive."

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Lets be very careful in your pursuing right now. You can be less passive without pursuing. Try small things and monitor the response. Be coy. Be creative.. but not over the top. You don't want to overwhelm her.. remember. Plus.. it will be fake. Once you get the goal.. things will flounder again.


Bad choice of words around here. By pursuing I mean things like pursuing hobbies etc. Not her. Not right now. I just need to do more, live more, be less anxious.

M:37
W:34
M:4 years
T:6 years
No Kids
A disclosed - 9/1/2010
W asks for separation - 10/19/2010
Moving on - 10/24/2010
A ends (and I believe her) - 12/2010
Content - 3/1/2011
Served - 3/18/2011
D Day - 6/20/2011