Originally Posted By: Rondo


Can I go back to 3 yrs ago?



One person can make that decision. You.

If that's good enough for you, fine.

It would be time for me and my kids to cut the line and move on. If my wife told me that she wanted to be kid-free, I would do everything I could to arrange that.

Lay it out and let her know what her options are. (I am willing to... the conditions are...) Then detach and move forward.

SpinFree

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