Thank you Lance and CW

Lance - you think it's the old pursuit and distance? Could be....But I certainly don't want him to see me as his mother lol....

But I think that he does anyway...it came up few times in one form or another, once he said something like this "You are like my mother you are going to hate me forever for this"....his mom never forgave his dad for leaving when she was pregnant with H...she remained bitter and depressed all her life....In that statement H I guess forgot that I've already forgiven him once 20 years ago for the first affair.....and that I was giving him a chance after chance to come back this time....

CW - I'm not letting his "niceness" get to me, I'm just observing....

Last night I received another "nice" email from H. When I emailed him that I'm sorry that I can't go with him to the business thingy I got back "But I will miss you there"

Have a great day everyone smile


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO