BM,

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I am in a down mood.

I am sorry that YOU feel this way. What things do you like to do? Maybe try doing something to take your mind off of all of this chit.

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OW is likely living with H.

Are you sure?

If not, then try not to let your mind wander.


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Trying to shake this dang feeling like I have to compete with that "Ya-bo."

Then I suggest that you do something to make yourself happy. Read a good book, go for a walk, anything to keep your mind off of this.

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I feel like H is hooked into her for good as she keeps feeding his ego.

Once again you do not know this for sure. Stop trying to figure out what he is thinking, what is going on. Focus on you right now.

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She does this well.

How do you know? I mean really BM, he could be breaking up with her right now…you just don’t know.

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I am trying hard to detach and not react to this.

God, I know how hard it is. The only thing that worked for me was trying to get out of the house and do something.

You can do this!

God Bless,
Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans