My only concern with the 30 days is that at the end of it, Parts is going to either be moving toward his marriage or away from it.
I would like Parts to realize that "F the 30 days regardless" determine that he wants to work on his marrige or not without somesort of imposed timeline (because timelines do not work in your favor here) and figure out for himself if his marriage is worth his comittment.
Because that is what it is, a comittment. "30 days", however, is like that return policy on a mattress.
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