Just curious, how do you feel when he contacts you? I mean honestly, do you get the warm fuzzies....do you still think that deep down he still loves you? Is that what you are hoping for? I ask because you always seem to answer his calls or texts even when the kids are with you....do you ever let it go to voicemail or even shut off your phone. it sounds like you may need a rest from that cell phone...he sure affects you regardless of what he says or writes.
Good question John...I need to really think about how it affects my emotions. The weird part is sometimes it really hurts (he texted me Sat while I was at wedding #2 to tell me Stephanie was at the farm with him...why??). Then sometimes, not at all. Like the 11 texts on Monday. I just sort of shook my head at his delusions of reality...
I do let them go to vm if I am at work, working out, in the yard, etc. But you are right, if I am 'available' and he calls, I pretty much always answer.
We shall see what my IC thinks about this. She already suggested I not contact him unless it is serious/urgent or kid related. Which is fine. However that does not address what to do if HE is the one contacting ME...
